Ever since Ktc has gone in the new group. i.e. Mks/ My's group he has started giving trouble and it is pee pee trouble..! Although being fully toilet trained many many months ago, he now manages to pee in his clothes everyday and sometimes several times a day. Yesterday he peed on himself so many times that My was in tears and stock of spare clothes both in his personal basket as well as the school drawer ran out. We had nothing to make him wear.
It was surprising because this had never happened when he was with us. Both Cl and I know the answer but we are quiet. Whom to say and what??
When Ktc was with us I had noticed that he wore ultra tight clothes. He is a very healthy and strong boy and ideally should be wearing size 110 or at least 104 but actually wears 92 which is several size smaller and wrong for him. Whether his parents think it is okay or simply are unaware what should be okay, I do not know. His underwears, jeans and leggings used to be so tight that he was unable to slip them down to be able to do pee. So we always had to help him out with it.
I had informed this to his father who is a very nice gentleman but the very next week he went to another group and so it ceased to be my problem.
Mks and My are not that loving and caring to the kids. They lead the children to toilets and tell them to go do pee. They do help of course when it is needed but still Ktc has been escaping their attention steadily up till now. So poor fellow wants to pee but is unable to tell them that he wants his trousers to be pulled down nor do they even notice that he has only been loitering around the toilets without peeing. They still do not know what's wrong with his clothes and then get a shock of their lives when he wets his clothes several times a day.! They don't find anything amiss that a big enough child doesn't feel comfortable enough to approach them to communicate his needs.
Yesterday while coming to school, I accidentally met his father. He was upset too with this and had no idea why this was happening. I repeated that he needed to wear bigger size clothes. I also discussed this with Mks but I got a feeling that Mks did not like that I should be talking to parents of his group so I have decided that I shan't pick up this subject again with him. Cl thinks the same too. She says it is their problem now. They should know what is wrong and why it is happening. After all it never happened with us and there is a good reason for that.
Today when Mks brought his children in for sleeping I noticed that he asked Ktc if he wanted to go to pee. Ktc nodded.
"Then go to the toilet, man, and do pee pee." He ordered loudly in an impatient tone. Ktc immediately complied without a word and went out. 5-10 minutes later he returned, got undressed with Mks's help and went to sleep. Half an hour later a large stream of pee was flowing from under his bed like a big rain swollen river....!!!
"Oh, shit man. Ktc has peed again! Oh no. How could this be? He went to toilet just half an hour ago. I myself sent him. I swear, there is something wrong with this boy. ...How can he pee so many times a day and sooo much?"
In addition to Ktc, Ml also has been peeing in her clothes rather often and she too didn't do this when she was in our group. And Pr too.....
Another funny thing is when Mk's children need any help like opening buttons, pulling out a tshirt etc they feel afraid to go to him; instead they come to me to seek help and I admit I find it flattering. The other day My was complaining that her children don't speak anything, no 'Sorry', 'Thank you', no words, nothing. They all spoke so much when they were with us. Both Cl and I think its because both My and Mks are very harsh and strict teachers so they are afraid of them and don't open up.
I wonder if the parents are realizing this too....
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