Today My showed me the mail which Sv's mother wrote to her.
She had written that we are untrained, unexperienced, bad behaved teachers especially myself as we do not know how to handle children. Our incompetency is destroying her child so she has decided that she will remove Sv from such a bad school.
So this is the end of Sv's another school.
I remember his father telling me several months ago that Sv used to go to a children's creche here in Germany when he was only one and a half year old. However he had to be removed from there after only one or two months as he was not happy there. He complained that the caregivers over there took off his clothes even in winters and shamed him and used to hit him. I wonder how one and half year old child can say this much. I had explained to both the father and mother that undressing before going to bed is nothing like shaming but they didn't like to listen to me. I experienced the same problem while undressing him for bed. He would resist like a wild animal and felt something wrong was happening; to keep his mind at rest I had stopped undressing him at all. He was the only child who got under the quilts with full clothes on - and he used to wear sooo many clothes one on top of another. Once I counted and was amazed to see he was wearing 5 full sleeved clothes, full sleeved vest, full sleeved thermal wear, full sweater, then shirt then another sweater. with the central heating on he often used to sweat and stink but he never allowed even one of his sweater to be taken out. When he went to wash his hands he couldn't roll his sleeves up due to layer of 5 clothes being too thick and then wet all the 5 clothes together forcing us to take off all his 5 clothes to prevent him from catching chill. The other clothes which we gave him were too less in his mother's opinion and she blamed us that the child had caught cold because we had not dressed him warm enough.
Actually the problem is not with Sv but with his parents. They neglect and abuse him at home. He strives for attention and love. When he doesn't get it he turns aggressive and mischievous to seek attention and consequently gets hit and abused. He is being repressed at home so he turns doubly aggressive outside. The parents think sending him to school is enough which is not. They take no interest in his overall education and behavior and think that learning alphabets and numbers is more important. They do not accept the truth and try to solve the problem but make excuses and find faults with others for their own mistakes and shortcomings.
Believe it or not, with this sort of behavior, Sv will have problems in every school on this earth.
She had written that we are untrained, unexperienced, bad behaved teachers especially myself as we do not know how to handle children. Our incompetency is destroying her child so she has decided that she will remove Sv from such a bad school.
So this is the end of Sv's another school.
I remember his father telling me several months ago that Sv used to go to a children's creche here in Germany when he was only one and a half year old. However he had to be removed from there after only one or two months as he was not happy there. He complained that the caregivers over there took off his clothes even in winters and shamed him and used to hit him. I wonder how one and half year old child can say this much. I had explained to both the father and mother that undressing before going to bed is nothing like shaming but they didn't like to listen to me. I experienced the same problem while undressing him for bed. He would resist like a wild animal and felt something wrong was happening; to keep his mind at rest I had stopped undressing him at all. He was the only child who got under the quilts with full clothes on - and he used to wear sooo many clothes one on top of another. Once I counted and was amazed to see he was wearing 5 full sleeved clothes, full sleeved vest, full sleeved thermal wear, full sweater, then shirt then another sweater. with the central heating on he often used to sweat and stink but he never allowed even one of his sweater to be taken out. When he went to wash his hands he couldn't roll his sleeves up due to layer of 5 clothes being too thick and then wet all the 5 clothes together forcing us to take off all his 5 clothes to prevent him from catching chill. The other clothes which we gave him were too less in his mother's opinion and she blamed us that the child had caught cold because we had not dressed him warm enough.
Actually the problem is not with Sv but with his parents. They neglect and abuse him at home. He strives for attention and love. When he doesn't get it he turns aggressive and mischievous to seek attention and consequently gets hit and abused. He is being repressed at home so he turns doubly aggressive outside. The parents think sending him to school is enough which is not. They take no interest in his overall education and behavior and think that learning alphabets and numbers is more important. They do not accept the truth and try to solve the problem but make excuses and find faults with others for their own mistakes and shortcomings.
Believe it or not, with this sort of behavior, Sv will have problems in every school on this earth.
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